The only constant in our lives is, in fact, a constant change.
There comes a time when you face a wall, when it seems there is no way out of the labyrinth. When you fall to your utmost, instead of sobbing and knocking yourself down to the exact moment of a complete failure and hopelessness, it is time to raise your head and reinvent yourself. Because not a single line of success is a straight line. And the only constant in our lives is, in fact, a constant change.
Life has been generous to me. I quitted jobs, I got fired twice, have experienced ups and downs, I have been losing and I have been gaining. People came, people left. With and without my help. Times of happiness, times of sorrow, drawn together and blended in perfect life circles. It took me many sleepless nights, anxiety, desperation before I realized that the only constant in life is, in fact, a constant change.
And if you wish to initiate the change, it is you who must change first. Not in a trivial, down-to-earth way, but in a noble and enlightening way, in a way to reinvent yourself, to reach the full potentials of your spiritual growth. The rest will follow.
Instead of pushing through the wall while posing that WHY with a question mark above your head, maybe it would do you better to start asking HOW. You are where you are. And you don’t feel good. However, you can’t change others or the environment you found yourself into. So, don’t ask why it had to be you, but ask how you can change.
“Don’t think you are, know you are”, says Morpheus in Matrix. Broaden your maps in brain, go deep into yourself, imagine everything in details, just the way you would like it to be. It doesn’t matter whether it is a house, a job you would like to have, or a spouse you would like to marry one day. Finish your dream. Just like a child. Reinvent yourself. Unfortunately or fortunately, no one determines your boundaries but you. Impossible thing are just projections of other people towards you.
So, when you face a wall, when it seems there is no way out of the labyrinth, when you feel desperate and hopeless, there is one thing that should make you happy. The fact that as long as you breathe, you can make a new start. And don’t you think that’s wonderful, what do you say?
